People Skills

Hand You Are Dealt

Playing The Hand You’re Dealt

“Well, at least feeling this way allowed us to work on our personalities! People skills are ageless and have served us well” I say to the woman helping me with my purchase. She gives me a knowing nod. The Backstory. I’m at a department store picking up a Prom dress for my daughter. The Customer Service Representative quickly slips into a conversation …

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Not Fitting In

Feeling Like You Don’t Fit In?

Feeling Like You Don’t Fit In? Often clients are surprised to learn that I am inherently shy and insecure. Growing up I would watch the Christmas special, “Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer”  (no heckling about my age!) and always get a lump in my throat during the part about the toys on the “Land of Misfits”.  I could 2,671% relate.  I …

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Can You Relate To My Covid Binge?

My 2.5 Year Covid Free Streak Ended In August. And while I felt lousy (even my teeth hurt!), I’m not one to squander a golden opportunity for binge-watching TV! My demand for mindless entertainment did cheer me up. The Great Pottery Thrown Down, Blown Away, and Barry all got their fair share of viewing time but it was the HBO Max …

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Turning On The “Like Switch”- How I Got Our Oven Fixed

“How would you like to be unable to cook at home for two months?” my husband says in an exasperated tone into the phone. He’s been on hold and passed around with customer service reps for hours and his patience is wearing thin. The Backstory. In April our 22-year-old oven died unexpectedly (#RIPOven) which means that my husband …

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CT Scan

My Latest Scare And Why People Skills Matter!

My sister and I are besties so when she shared some scary medical things that were going on with her, the panic inside me started to grow. Weirdly, one of my first thoughts was the famous Patrick Swayze quote from the movie “Dirty Dancing”… I guess the protective side of me was coming out. I worried about her and asked if anyone could be …

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Do People Like You?

Do They Really, Really Like You? Here’s the deal, we are hard-wired to belong and connect.  (Hello there Sally Field Oscar’s speech “You like me, you really like me!”). I ran across an interesting study. We all need to belong.  It’s central to our well-being. It’s no surprise then that researchers found some hard science …

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Spilling The Tea On Charisma!

Last week we talked about the importance of waking other people’s brains up and I left you with a cliffhanger wondering how we do just that. Clearly, it’s been a loooonnnngggg week of waiting for you so… Let’s get right to it! Charisma Tip #1 We tune out when we hear social scripts: “How are …

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