Instead of “How are you?” try something like:
“What’s the best thing that has happened to you today?”
“Got any fun plans coming up?”
Or for someone you haven’t seen in a while,
“What’s was the highlight of your year?”
Instead of “What do you do?” try:
“What personal passion projects are you working on?”
“Are you working on any exciting projects at work?”
Instead of “Where are you from?” try:
“What’s your story?”
“What is your city most known for?”