We All Know That One Person...

We All Know That One Person...

You wonder...
Why are some people so charismatic and some... just not?

You notice that...

Can you relate?
  • James repels customers while Jada pulls them in like a gigantic magnet.
  • Amy seems so shifty. You just never know what to expect from her!
  • Heather makes you feel very small every time you’re around her. And, darn it, you’ve worked hard to follow all of her directives!
  • Everyone immediately likes Shin. Approximately 3.5 seconds after meeting him, clients are already raving about his customer service.
  • Alejandro knows everyone in all of the departments. And why does everyone confide in him?
  • Isabella always seems so unsure. Seriously, everything she says feels like a question!
  • The team doesn’t know the new guy’s name. Was it Conner? Cody? Charlie?

Some people show up well while others struggle.

I used to marvel at how some people just seem to be born with the people skill playbook in their cherubic little hands.

There is always that one person that is just mesmerizing...

What is it that they seem to do effortlessly?

Our nonverbal cues are constantly talking and you need to know what they are saying. 

When your body language cues are in alignment, you are perceived as having presence and being influential.

The ability to decode & encode body language is a sign of incredibly high emotional & social intelligence. Those who know, climb the ladder of success at staggeringly higher rates than their counterparts.

It pays to know body language!

  • How are you showing up?
  • What are your nonverbals saying about you?
  • How can you be more intentional?

Your co-pilot  (who continues to be an avid people watcher!),

Kristin Bock

P.S.

What have you noticed?

I’d love to hear about your observations!

What is it that makes someone compelling… or not? 

Does a specific person come to mind?

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