One night the employee came into work after hours to prep for an upcoming class and her presence in the building triggered the alarm system before she could turn it off. This alerted the security company that then called the facilities manager. Needless to say, it was an unwelcome call in the evening that required a drive to work to investigate. Not cool!
This led the Manager of the said department to march into my office the next day and stand in my doorway to tell me how I was doing my job poorly and also point out that I was allowing the “inmates to run the prison”.
Prior to the “incident”, I knew the other manager and I had different leadership styles and I knew that I wasn’t going to change his perception of me and my approach to leadership.
So when he stated, “If it was me, I wouldn’t let the inmates run the prison!” I simply tilted my head (to show I was listening and to soften the impact) and respectfully and genuinely said, “I know”.