4. The Touch
Disclaimer: I recognize we are still in a pandemic so only use this move with people in your inner bubble until it’s safe to use in the community.
Lightly touch the other person’s forearm of elbow to get their attention. Even the chattiest of people usually pause which is your cue to exit stage left by saying something like, “It was really great talking with you but I need to… (insert reason like “Catch Sally before she leaves” or “Pick up my kids”, etc). Lightly touching someone pulls them out of their soliloquy and grabs their attention since they’ve clearly missed your facial and nonverbal cues.